Friday, December 21, 2012

Angels have visited


We have been visited by angels!  The 2 small Precious Moments(l) are ornaments I found in my Advent Swap and the taller angel(r)...from Jeff's sister... has a color morph dress.  All fit in so well with the rest of our 'crystal forest' on the mantel.  Jeff's sister gave an angel to Mom, too, and it's at the rehab facility with her.

We visited Mom yesterday after lunch but she was too tired to talk.  She had been evaluated that morning in PT/OT.   Talked to the facility MD and the case manager.  Mom can stay there for the next 3 months as long as she starts showing some improvement in mobility.  Hope the angel helps her.
                          

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Hospital Trips, Swap Buddies and All

      Just back from a trip to the hospital in Cooperstown to see my mom.  She's somewhat better but a long way from the semi-independent woman she was a short...no, make that a long 3 weeks ago.  Even at 98 she was still knitting!  Now she can not feed herself or even direct a straw into her mouth.  When being transferred from chair to bed all she does is scream and go limp.  The worst part is that there isn't a medical reason for this.  The case manager is suggesting long-term care (skilled nursing home) and Mom may be moved tomorrow or Thursday back to one in Herkimer.  At least that's only 5 minutes away and not 45 minutes like the hospital.  
     Some of the bright spots in this ordeal have been the swap packages I've found waiting for me at home.  I've received some lovely things...several sets of stitch markers to add to my collection  (you should see the purple mitten bead ones!) as well as yarn, and project and notion bags. The socks I got in the St Nicholas' Day swap have gotten rave reviews from all who've seen them...and made me really understand how comfortable wool socks are!  I've lost track of which swaps I posted thanks you's on, but I appreciate them all.   I finally got all my packages mailed and really appreciate the patience I've gotten from the swap mods.  
     Jeff's been my foundation through all of this and without him I couldn't have made it this far.  Tomorrow we'll be working on rebuilding the woodpile...he cuts, I stack and the dog runs around like crazy.  We're planning to host his sister and a cousin of mine for dinner on Christmas.  

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Back to the Hospital

Josie's been confused since moving into rehab and has been resisting PT.  This morning when I visited her, she was sitting in a chair with a very runny nose but not very social...I'm not sure she even knew who I was.  After lunch the facility called to say that she had spiked a temp and they were starting antibiotics.  Late this afternoon they called again to tell me that they had sent her to the ER in Cooperstown because her temp wasn't responding to treatment and she had developed some respiratory distress.  They gave me a phone number and I called...but she hadn't arrived yet.  An hour later, she was there but they were waiting for the lab work.  Next phone call...about 1 1/2 hrs later, she was in X-ray.  Around 11pm, they finally decided to admit her for a UTI and pneumonia. They'll probably keep her until Monday...at least. The weather was suppose to go down hill tonight w/ freezing rain and since they hadn't decided to admit her, we decided to wait until they did. (If they had sent her back to the rehab facility we might have passed each other on the road!)   The weather is suppose to get better by noon tomorrow so we'll probably go down then.  

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Valley Health

Josie was transferred to Valley Health Rehab, Room 114, W German St., Herkimer, NY  13350 yesterday... Tuesday...morning.  She was not terribly pleased...'the ride was very bumpy'.  I'm sure she will be even more 'not pleased' when she discovers this morning that ALL rehab residents are dressed and in the dining room for breakfast and then spend 'most if not all' morning in therapy sessions.  I plan on dropping by to see her for a few minutes today after lunch.  They said she can have her cell phone  so I'll bring it then.  She's lost half her dentures...arriving with only 1 plate. The social worker at Valley Health said she'd try to find out what happened to the other but it may have broken or just thrown out by accident.  She'll be there until Christmas...and maybe beyond depending on how much progress she makes.  Remember, rehab means work not a vacation.  The next 2 weeks will be interesting.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

How Not To Spend An Afternoon

Spent the afternoon at the ER in Cooperstown Tuesday.  Mom had a cold for a couple of days and she was rather weak and wobbly.  Her home health care aide worried she might have had a stroke so we called for an ambulance and went to Bassett. Tests results show no signs of a stroke, mild to moderate dehydration and an irregular heart beat so they decided to admit her, hang a saline drip and do a MRI in the morning.  Once the drip was going she perked up and after an hour or so started to be her usual bitchy self (why hasn't the doctor come back?  where's that nurse? etc). The ER was full and very busy. (Then there was the 'major trauma' on RTE 28 S that came in just before we left to come home. It forced us to take a detour down dark country roads where we missed a turn, ending up in Fort Plain...about 20 miles east of home but where gasoline was only $3.65! Good because by then we needed some!  Still, I'm glad Jeff was driving!)   Mom did not have a good night and when Jeff and I got back the next day she was totally out of it.  She hadn't eaten anything and was on oxygen!  Jeff got her to eat while I got hysterical (we had left her sitting up eating a ham sandwich!)  Yesterday she was eating and talking but went to sleep when we got there.  The doctor said the UTI may have traveled up to her kidneys and they wanted to rule that out.  I managed to pick up a cold (complete with chills and fever) somewhere along the line and had slept all the way down...and back...and all evening in the chair by the fire...and all night.  (Some cold, huh?)  Jeff slept on the couch and Fanny kept growling at him! This morning I called the hospital and told them that I would not be coming down today coz of the cold.  This afternoon the doctor called and said mom was ready to be discharged.  There was no way I wanted to go back down there in a cold rain but....  Then the doctor called back and said maybe she should go to rehab to regain her strength and mobility.  After a few more phone calls the case manager was going to look for a bed at Valley Health or Folts.  Haven't heard from anyone in a couple of hours so I think she'll stay put until Monday. I'll find out in the morning.

 Fanny was fantastic on her own the first day!  No puddles or piles, shredded or chipped wood or chewed up household implements (wooden spoons and plastic screwdriver handles are favorites!).  She was happy to see me but over-the-moon to see Jeff!  (Hey, I'm the one who opens the dog food cans!)  But last night she wasn't so good and left a pile next to the-sleeping-on- the-couch Jeff.  He made soup in our new crock pot when we got home and kept encouraging me to have some.   I had tried to work on a ladies sock while we waited...and waited...and waited in the ER but didn't get very far coz Mom's 'room' was in the hall and I had to keep moving as other patients were moved around.  Didn't do any knitting last night either.
And on top of it all, I lost my cell phone...after just download 120 minutes on to it.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

No Central Heat in 1817...

Just back from the Hyde Hall Holiday at Glimmerglass State Park near Cooperstown.  Hyde Hall is a historical building being renovated.  Built in 1817, it does not have central heating or many electric lights.  I learned those facts first-hand today as I help represent the shop at this craft show.  There were about a dozen vendors set up in the foyer, drawing room and front parlor of this once magnificent mansion. To say it was cold in there is a total understatement!   I felt like I was dressed for skiing not sitting at a craft table!  I even had some hand warmers in my pockets!  The organizers compensated with free coffee all afternoon...without telling you that the bathroom was in the visitor's center across the lawn!  As the day progressed it got darker and colder in there but we still called it a success with the shop doing well. I sold several baby sweater sets and took orders for a couple more. Guess I know what I'll be doing this week!